How to Reignite Passion In a Relationship?

If you have been in your relationship for some time, and it seems to have gone flat, then you are looking for ways to reignite the passion and intimacy that you once had.

Do you remember what it used to be like when you couldn’t wait to see your partner?

Do you wonder what is missing that has caused you to lose interest in each other?

No one wants to settle for a boring relationship.

However, there are some ways that you can reignite your passion:

Be spontaneous

Spontaneity is one of the things that you often lose first in a relationship, and that can take the spark out of your romance. Fortunately, all you have to do to get spontaneity back is to, well, be spontaneous! Do things that you would not normally do.

Buy some massage oil that heats up and gives each other a massage. Go to an adult toy store and don’t leave until each of you has chosen something, then take them home and try them out. Write a note to leave in his briefcase to tell him what you have planned for later. Call her at home and tell her that you can’t wait to spend time with her that evening.

There is no end to the things that you can do on the spur of the moment that will keep your minds on the right things and build anticipation that you believed you had lost. You don’t have to make love in an elevator to be spontaneous. You just have to use the power of suggestions by saying and doing things you wouldn’t normally consider.

Go out without the kids

Get a babysitter and go out without the kids. Some parents think that they are overindulging themselves by leaving their kids behind. The reality is, your kids need a break from you, too. They also need parents who are happy and have a strong, loving relationship.

Give your partner a special gift

You know those little coupon books you can get that allow the recipient to “cash them in” whenever they want? Give your partner a book of those or make up some of your own with some special “gifts” that he or she really likes. Don’t put any restrictions on them and always agree when he wants to use one of them.

While this may not sound appealing to you to have to do something when you really may not be in the mood for it, it is a great way to create spontaneity, and you will probably get into the mood much faster than you thought!

Be adventurous

Some couples go a little farther than others to ignite their passion, but you should both be in agreement before you try anything. If you don’t have trouble with dressing up with a wig and going to a bar where your partner can “pick you up,” then you can add the excitement of giving him an experience with someone new without the risk or damage that comes from a real chance encounter.

Fantasy games are a popular way for many couples to ignite a flat relationship by introducing new personality and practices into their normal ones, which have grown stale. Start by talking about your fantasies that you have never shared before to determine if acting them out might be a real passion builder.

Few people fail to get into relationship ruts over time and the only way to get out of them is to change what you are doing into something more interesting and more exciting. Change how you dress, what you say, and maybe where you draw the line.

Sometimes the best way to ignite your passion is to get your partner thinking about what he or she really likes to do that you may not be so crazy about. If you are willing to put forth the effort, you can put the fire back into your relationship.